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sexual relationship (rapport sexuel) Lacan first proposes his
famous formula: il n'y a pas de rapport sexuel in 1970 (see Lacan 1969-70:
134), and takes it up again in his seminar of 1972-3 (S20, 17). This formula is
usually translated into English as 'There is no such thing as a sexual relation-
ship', which is misleading since Lacan is certainly not denying that people have
sex! The formula might be better rendered 'There is no relation between the
sexes', thus emphasising that it is not primarily the act of sexual intercourse that
Lacan is referring to but the question of the relation between the masculine
sexual position and the feminine sexual position. The formula thus condenses a
number of points in Lacan's approach to the question of SEXUAL DIFFERENCE:
1. There is no direct, unmediated relation between the male and female
sexual position, because the Other of language stands between them as a third
party (S20, 64). 'Between male and female human beings there is no such
thing as an instinctive relationship' because all sexuality is marked by the
signifier (Lacan, l975b). One consequence of this is that it is not possible to
define perversion by reference to a supposedly natural form of the sexual
relationship (as Freud did). Heterosexuality is thus not natural but normative
(Ec, 223).
2. There is no reciprocity or symmetry between the male and female
positions because the Symbolic order is fundamentally asymmetrical; there is
no corresponding signifier which could signify Woman in the same way that the
male sex is symbolised. There is only one signifier, the Phallus, which governs
the relations between the sexes (E, 289). There is thus no symbol for a
symmetrical sexual relationship: 'the sexual relationship cannot be written'
(S20, 35).
3. Relations between men and women can never be harmonious; 'The most
naked rivalry between men and women is eternal' (S2, 263). Love is no more
than an illusion designed to make up for the absence of harmonious relations
between the sexes (whether presented in mythical terms, as in Plato's Sympo-
sium, or in psychoanalytic terms, as in Balint's concept of GENITAL œOVC).
4. The sexual drives are directed not towards a 'whole person' but towards
PART-OBJECTS. There is therefore no such thing as a sexual relationship between
two subjects, only between a subject and a (partial) object. For the man, the
object a occupies the place of the missing partner, which produces the
matheme of fantasy (SOa); in other words, the Woman does not exist for
the man as a Real subject, but only as a fantasy object, the cause of his desire
(S20, 58).
5. Woman cannot function sexually qua Woman but only qua mother;
'Woman begins to function in the sexual relationship only as mother' (S20,
36).
6. As something rooted in the Real, sex is opposed to meaning; and 'sex, in
represents a radically different way in which the SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP CAD
misfire (S20, 53-4).
sexual relationship (rapport sexuel) Lacan first proposes his
famous formula: il n'y a pas de rapport sexuel in 1970 (see Lacan 1969-70:
134), and takes it up again in his seminar of 1972-3 (S20, 17). This formula is
usually translated into English as 'There is no such thing as a sexual relation-
ship', which is misleading since Lacan is certainly not denying that people have
sex! The formula might be better rendered 'There is no relation between the
sexes', thus emphasising that it is not primarily the act of sexual intercourse that
Lacan is referring to but the question of the relation between the masculine
sexual position and the feminine sexual position. The formula thus condenses a
number of points in Lacan's approach to the question of SEXUAL DIFFERENCE:
1. There is no direct, unmediated relation between the male and female
sexual position, because the Other of language stands between them as a third
party (S20, 64). 'Between male and female human beings there is no such
thing as an instinctive relationship' because all sexuality is marked by the
signifier (Lacan, l975b). One consequence of this is that it is not possible to
define perversion by reference to a supposedly natural form of the sexual
relationship (as Freud did). Heterosexuality is thus not natural but normative
(Ec, 223).
2. There is no reciprocity or symmetry between the male and female
positions because the Symbolic order is fundamentally asymmetrical; there is
no corresponding signifier which could signify Woman in the same way that the
male sex is symbolised. There is only one signifier, the Phallus, which governs
the relations between the sexes (E, 289). There is thus no symbol for a
symmetrical sexual relationship: 'the sexual relationship cannot be written'
(S20, 35).
3. Relations between men and women can never be harmonious; 'The most
naked rivalry between men and women is eternal' (S2, 263). Love is no more
than an illusion designed to make up for the absence of harmonious relations
between the sexes (whether presented in mythical terms, as in Plato's Sympo-
sium, or in psychoanalytic terms, as in Balint's concept of GENITAL œOVC).
4. The sexual drives are directed not towards a 'whole person' but towards
PART-OBJECTS. There is therefore no such thing as a sexual relationship between
two subjects, only between a subject and a (partial) object. For the man, the
object a occupies the place of the missing partner, which produces the
matheme of fantasy (SOa); in other words, the Woman does not exist for
the man as a Real subject, but only as a fantasy object, the cause of his desire
(S20, 58).
5. Woman cannot function sexually qua Woman but only qua mother;
'Woman begins to function in the sexual relationship only as mother' (S20,
36).
6. As something rooted in the Real, sex is opposed to meaning; and 'sex, in
opposing itself to sense, is also, by definition, opposed to relation, to commu-
nication' (Copjec, 1994: 21).